I wanted to share part of the New Year’s post I never published. I held back aware that my goals could change in an instant with an MRI looming… I had been battling the idea of having to farewell goals and dreams, weighing up each worth to me and prioritising.
“We start a new resolution, charge our glasses to fitness & health, wealth & success, love… and pray that this is our year – sounds familiar? How did you fair on last year’s goals or were they forgotten about the first week? Did exercise plans go out with the first washing load of sweaty gear? Did you finally gather the courage to try that something new?
I have been reflected my goals for the year and dreaming about 2015. In some areas I have excelled and in others I have fallen short – on a scale of just short to scraping the line of failure. I am not afraid to admit defeat to the things I can’t turn around in the last half of December! I would rather spend the last few days working out how not to repeat those mistakes again and how to build upon my strengths more.
I have learnt above all in the wise words of Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh (aka A. A. Milne) that I am stronger than I thought…”
I am stronger than I think and I have no doubt you are stronger than you think. No matter what you face you have to boldly choose to take hold of strength, bravery and your smarts; they are keys to get you through. We are resilient! We bounce back!
A goal is simply a wish written down to motivate achievement. Goals come and goals go, many we whisper and some we shout out loud. If we considered all the goals we have ever set I am sure we would be horrified at our personal success rate at seeing them achieved! They are motivators to keep us working towards the future we want to walk in. They reflect us; ever changing and ever growing.
For me I find myself at the beginning of 2015 still exercising flexibility with my goals. For example I would love to be fit, jump and run again – but with my children not a marathon to prove my personal endurance when that would compromise the longevity of my ankle joint. The goal just shrunk after prioritising what is important. It is the “honey I shrunk the goal” concept! My perspective shifted to using any strength and ability for what matters most; walking alongside my children and standing beside my husband. Are there any goals you need to shrink or kiss goodbye?
As for the dreams I have plenty. Next time let us chat about those, today I wanted to say it is OK to shrink a goal or kiss goodbye to a dream. We will be OK. We are strong, brave and smart. Sometimes it is wisdom.